Alright, gentlemen, so you wanna take out that sexy girl from work or the popular girl you have seen at your favourite Club a few times and you wanna make a good impression – but how? This post deals with all the things you can do to optimise your chances of getting a hot girl on a date.
The bad news is – there is no magical formula you can say to make the girl drop her panties; the good news is, that their are a lot of areas in which a bit of work on your part will make you a better, more confident man. Now, I am not your wife, girlfriend nor mum, so I will not beat around the bush, but tell you exactly how a woman thinks and what it is we notice when Prince Charming comes riding in. This can be tough love for some of you sensitive boys out there, but this blog is all about honesty and advice that is applicable in the REAL world, so if you can’t handle the truth, well, best of luck to you! On the other hand, if you wanna optimise your chances with the fairer sex, read on!
Here’s a list of five things you should know before approaching a girl: Each day you can read a different subject.
Today – The Naked Truth
8/12 – Monday – Body Language
9/12 – Tuesday – Dress To Impress
10/12 – Wednesday – Have Balls
11/12 – Thursday – Dos and Don’ts on the first date
1. The naked truth!
First impressions can not be Undone! Women scan you thoroughly from head to toe in the blink of an eye; and we notice everything. In a few seconds we scan your face, hair, nails, hands, posture, teeth, body, body language, clothes, glow AND ENERGY.
My first piece of advice is: look in the mirror! Now, you are the product of your dad’s successful seduction of your mum, the body and face you have are, pretty much, the body and face you have, and not all of you vil look like a certain ‘B. Pitt ‘. But that’s not an excuse for not having clean, groomed hands and nails, (you DO want them hands touching our divine bodies, do you not ?!). That’s why it is Very Important! Can you grow a sexy beard? Do it, but keep it trimmed and groomed, we do not want to see the left overs of last night’s dinner in your beard. Same goes with your hair – a bit too long neck hairs, makes you look greasy and lazy, ask your hair dresser what works for you and have it cut regularly. Personally I do not mind if you have short hair a balled head or long hair, as long as you look hygienic and well groomed. My hair is always crazy, but it does not mean yours have to be. Do you have a skin problem? is your skin dry and ashy? do you have a grey skin tone? are you black around your eyes? (Hint: Your body is missing vitamins or minerals) or do you have flaky dry lips or acne! if you can say ‘yes’ to any of these – Go see a dermatologist (an article on ‘proper skin care’ is in the works, by the way ). Are you very pale? Get your ass to Miami or, as a last resort, use a tanning bed or some self tan. Looking pale was hot last century, not anymore, guys! Yellow, crooked teeth – go see a dentist asap, and have them bleached, if your teeth look bad we will think,’ I wonder what he’s body looks like, when he is too lazy to take care of he’s teeth’. There are multiple options, that can improve your looks tremendously with a little effort (uni-brow? Big no-no, remove the hair between your eyes, ’nuff said!) If you are a hairy beast 😉 – wax the unwanted hair away , your dermatologist can do it in no time, hair on your shoulders or back – a big no-no as well. Chest hairs are fine, it can look sexy if you trim it a bit, long chest hairs on the other hand, signals’ old man style’.
This is not rocket science, but you’d be surprised how many men are too lazy two take care of the obvious. Present the HOT version of yourself – why would you settle with anything less ?!
I am writing this post, because I care and want you to be the HOTTEST version of you :))
More to come on Monday stay toned;) – Body Language – do not miss it! – it sends very strong signals – when you approach a girl 😉
Enjoy your weekend and a BIG MUAAAh from me :))